Home Maides renewed Danger – A contemplation break – ✍️ Amani Al -Amin (sister al -Kalm)
When the war in Sudan caught his misfortunes, he was very hard and not without lessons.
Murder, rape, argument, destruction, theft and other calamities that no one has survived
Whoever has a share is a flight, praise to God for salvation
If he compares his misfortune in flight with the murder and the violations which came to the minds of others, he repeated, he (I survived)
The painful when you discover that the one who stole you is the person you watch, has done well and sympathized with him
The painful when you know that the maid who was between you is the thief or is the collaborator with the mercenaries, and she (described), and some of them brought his family on the outskirts of the capital and occupied your house with everything (all)
The Sudanese people in nature are good, but war revealed to us that kindness was often (Jazjah)
We used to trust foreigners without security or care
The maid in Sudanese houses learned the secrets of the house and certain houses in negligence and spontaneity
A year before the war, on my Facebook page, I wrote on the need (set al -bayt) (for a maid) or a worker and my article was a question
Today I return it and ask if the maid or the worker is (necessary)
Is it difficult for housewives to do their homework
Especially those who have sons and daughters at age who can reach out and contribute to duties
Why are we doing disabled in our homes ????
One day, I found an excuse for women who work
I thought that the woman who has a job outside the house needs a maid to help her in the burden of the house, but when God wanted me to settle outside Sudan (Spain), I have known many women of different nationalities … I have not heard that among them is the use of a maid
I discovered that the management of the house is a culture and a conscience … family cooperation … a sense of responsibility
Farakh in my mind is that relying on the houses of the house exclusively on developing countries (back) where time has lost in things (empty)
Where a culture is that male children and the family lord have nothing to do
And that Arab women in general and not exclusive to Sudanese women
The vast majority of them buy inactivity, laziness and the concern of superficial and without advantage
Very normal, one of them sleeps until the middle of the afternoon, based on the maid (worker)
And very normal sitting on the mobile for hours
Even workers’ portfolios, whatever the majority of them, do not improve the rationalization of time
So that there is part of the time for home tasks
It is easy for the owner of the house the cleanliness process very easily so that every day is allocated to a specific side, and when the week passes, she finished the arrangement of her house and so on
Of course, if we assume that she is the mother of young children and has no son and daughters at the age of responsibility
And what is observed in the houses on which the owners depend (the maid) if it is absent or left the work, it occurs (its rak’ah) and complete paralysis
So what are we forced by women in this situation ???
This is my speech in the event that the (maid) has a morality and is not a danger to the family
In some families, crimes against humanity have occurred by leaving the children with the maid who have no conscience, and certain moral problems have occurred due to the presence of foreign household women who have no deterrence.
And flights have occurred individually and another in progress (gangs)
Now the war was stuck and separated and forced women to move
Many of them depended on maid, their lives changed due to the circumstances
The maid is additional material charges
For those who have been moved outside Sudan in neighboring countries and the maid is not available for those who have been moved inside Sudan
Set al -Bayt relied on herself and managed to manage her house easily
We therefore expect Sudan al -azza and dignity to return with a new understanding
We get rid of negative scenes
The most important thing is to cancel the bill (the worker) of the house, whatever the size of the house (large branch) (family house) as they call it or a small apartment which includes a limited family.
I would like people to try a life of stability and a feeling of family security, without the presence of a foreign element among them
It is pleasant to wish that I see the Sudanese woman depend on themselves and her broken family, so that she is called her family and has deleted mature generations that contribute to the construction of society
The girl who goes to marital life and has experience in the management of the house, helping her mother, causing herself up of cleanliness and organization of her house is different from the other that she cannot even organize her room
The first becomes a degree of consciousness and the other. His life is not without harassment and family problems which can lead to cases of divorce, with the exception of his mercy, my lord
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