Man's disorientation in the world of searching for the ideal partner ✍️ Dr Abbas Taha Hamza Sobeir
Since God created our master Adam, peace be upon him, and his mother Eve, He established duality or shared life… and one of the most important of these shared lives that has been approved and perfected by the holy law is the shared family formation, because it is responsible for preserving the human species and continuing life for a sublime purpose, which is to build the universe for a higher purpose, which is the worship of God Almighty…
The family is the first cornerstone of building society and is responsible for providing the most important needs of material and moral life, such as affection, mercy and comfort of the soul, in a non-chaotic balance between all these needs. ensuring that the family body recovers from all the diseases of material tyranny so that it can fulfill the function for which it was created, which is the worship of God Almighty… and what else, I created humanity and the jinn only to worship. .
Added to this is the importance of taking an adequate share of material necessities without extravagance, which will help him to worship. According to the son of Adam, there are qaymat that strengthen his core…
Eat and drink and don't go too far…
Islam, which is the religion of common sense and tolerant Hanifism, has been detailed in great detail, and the scholars of the country have explained the objectives of Sharia and its controls in choosing a life partner, which in its entirety clearly shows that the norms Religion and morality are the basis for choosing a partner. It has been proven that neglecting these two norms and focusing on material norms leads to a reduction in the chances of achieving the family's goals of accommodation, affection and mercy. .. This is why the true religion warns against the consequences of indulging in the materialistic world when choosing a life partner…
…If someone comes to you whose religion and character you are pleased with, marry him…. A woman is married for four reasons: her money, her beauty, her lineage and her religion, so choose the one who is religious, may your hands be blessed… If a man of good morals and religion loves a woman, he honors her, and if he hates her, he does not wrong her… A man of good morals and religion carries out the directives of his Creator and Prophet, may God's prayers and peace be upon him, regarding his wife… he treats her with kindness and separates from her with kindness, which is a higher degree than the recognized privilege of evaluating human performance in various aspects of life… A man of good morals and religion adheres to the directives of his Creator and Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace… in everything that pleases his wife, such as good company, honors her, does not insult her, does not beat her, does not insult him. He adheres to the Beloved's directives, may. May God bless him and grant him peace, in everything. Which makes her happy and preserves her human dignity.
In conjunction with all the above mentioned bearers of happiness in both worlds in choosing a life partner, however, ironically, the majority of people, both men and women, insist on focusing and even emphasizing on material standards that fluctuate according to their availability in choosing a partner, such as money, prestige, power, health and imaginary racial superiority, even though all the testimonies and testimonies confirm it. However, these material standards are at the very least fluctuating according to increase and decrease… and nihilism and demise with regard to them is a very visible reality. One day, he becomes Sultan and Scepter, and he finds himself losing his seat of authority, along with the loss of his money and all the opportunistic beneficiaries around him. losing himself the space of his power to remain in a guarded room away from his wives and children and surrounded by the military of those who turned against him and took away, by the power of God, his kingdom and his authority…
Therefore, most people who use material standards to choose a partner as a lifeboat in life are miserable, and this inevitably overwhelms them, and regret will not help them, and they will live the rest of their lives on the sidelines of a miserable life…
My observations in the world of those who are fascinated by material things in the choice of a life partner and their illusions in the world of the unknown have encouraged me to try to describe in words some of these different and dysfunctional norms, while recognizing that what is hidden from their eyes is greater than my ability to encompass them all…
I drew and said under the title…
…Birds of a feather flock together…
You won't ask questions about me and I'm destined to throw the question…
You will not ask questions about me or my condition. A presentiment will be sung…
You will not ask questions about me while you are in heaven while I am on earth. Look at the imagination…
You will not ask about me, since I am a son of the desert and you are from revolutions, Wadnobawi, and from a house of money…
You will not ask about me and my name is Abbas if the battle rages and the names Haitham or Talal make you happy.
You won't ask questions about me, your neighbor Zuhair, and I will be happy next to Hanzala or Bilal….
You will not ask about me when you are a delicacy and between my flanks is a lion eager to fight….
You will not ask about me, and my nature is still rough, and from you I received silk, the most important quality…
You will not ask about me while you cover me with some ugliness while you give beauty to the poplars of the earth….
You won't ask about me and your Toyota or Hummer, and when I travel, mules carry me…
You won't ask about me, and the beginning of your education is kindergarten, and then I take care of the camels…
You will not ask about me and those who drink lemonade and lemonade, and about your Pepsi, Cola and Royal drinks…
You will not ask about me. Basira Umm Hamad is treating me and your doctor is Dr. Kamal…
You will not ask questions about me when the whiteness of my head has taken precedence over the blackness and your youth is still young…
You won't always ask about me and my dabbalan, because they will be your clothes one day when it's time to go…
You will not ask about me, even though you have been clothed in robes and shawls because of poverty.
You will not ask about me while birds of a feather flock together, and it is reasonable to take them as an example…
