Words in love and loyalty ✍️ Adel Assum
What is the guarantee of a happy marital life?!
Is love or fulfillment?
Should I like that I get married before marriage, or will it automatically come after marriage?
Beginning, let’s define the following:
What is love?!
What is the realization?!
Loyalty: It is a state of conscious commitment to the conjugal relationship …
And love: is a state of unconscious to the conjugal relationship …
The fulfillment as long as it is included in the context of conscience, it is a member of the man who undertakes to be by going up, and thus becomes the duty of the husband towards the woman before the obligation is religious and morally, he will be held responsible for him before his Lord, then his conscience and his people.
And accomplishment, I think he is mature and called to strengthen relationships within the houses of love.
But if love is estimated and the marital relationship will increase its space spaciously, with the love that love adds serenity and altruism between them, how many houses did not like a common denominator in which affection and understanding were relieved of a product of accomplishment, which was preparing for the ship of comfortable life to its peace in peace.
The momentum of life, with the details of little things during the education of children, worries of work and interaction with the family of the husband and the wife of the woman; I see it as a sponsor to block the void that love should have occupied, then the passion expeditions for it of the concrete of the body, which leads to its emptying to restore the soul to its balance and its calm, therefore the loyalty itself can become a stadium of love and accept the other, where man can reach (his conscience) to a maximum degree of gratification and satisfaction that the woman does not feel the other feelings.
And a life like this is based on the development, respect and appreciation of the other, I find it during the days and years is able to stir up true love and love between spouses.
However, despite all this, tribal knowledge – and not love – have its sure role in the avoidance of many surprises (fait accompli), especially if overlapping before its release between the two preachers.
I do not forget the convictions of a previous study colleague, his father, a famous psychologist who built his perception of men on formal similarity in one of the animals. She swore to me that her analogies did not contradict the fact that she assessed the character of the personalities of many men who were around her, and her theory says that the psychological and behavioral force of any animal as long as it is fixed and the details, it is preferable for sacrifice with human beings because it is based on instinct, and I indicated that:
(If a person comes with a dog from his birth and is completely deleted, then he will inevitably create a dog that does not differ from his advantage in something, even if he puts it between the lions)! Consequently, a person, by his instinct – and the hadith of my colleague – has a lot of what comes to the animal in the hidden of himself.
But she added that any person, if he could sublimate himself with an auto-effort or the product of an ocean who has evolved on him, is imposed on himself new characteristics and specifications despite his resemblance to an animal …
Of course, I know that this conversation took place on many of us, but believe me, I am one of those who were convinced of it, and how much I took advantage of it during the movement of my life, and that strengthened me a lot of experiences and experiences of life during a trip for me a lot when I did not find enough time to explore the depths of animals, so I only look for grammar that is similar to animals to an analog which is similar to animals, which does not seek soft of me.
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